Sun, Apr 22, 2018

Offer Love and Respect

by Linda Evans
Winning at Marriage week two message from Linda Evans on April 22, 2018 at Community Church of Waterford, Goshen, Indiana. It is easy to love what is lovely. Beauty in nature, things like flowers and trees. Michael Angelo’s paintings. Wonderful music. Opposites really do attract. Maybe we love something because it is valuable to us. We hang on to something because it has worth. We often start out in relationships as good performers. Are you still treating your spouse the same way you did when you were dating or when you were first married? There is an example and an expectation for us to follow in the Bible regarding marriage. Ephesians 5:21-33 Most people who read these verses like what the verses say regarding how your spouse is supposed to treat you. But most people aren’t thrilled with what the verses are telling them to do. When we are filled with the Spirit and living our lives by the power of the Spirit, we no longer need to look to others to fill our emptiness, and we don’t have to manipulate and control them to try to fill ourselves up! When we are strengthened by the Holy Spirit, we have the strength and the desire to submit to one another! The Greek word for “submit” has the meaning of coming underneath someone not lording over them. Everyone is different and knowing your spouse well and knowing what they need to feel loved and secure and respected is huge. Matthew 22:37 John 4:7-18 I think this woman was looking to people to fill that emptiness in her heart. She was looking to her spouse to be her be-all-end-all and it clearly wasn’t working, because she’d had 5 husbands and was living with a man that she wasn’t married to. Jesus was offering her living water… He was offering himself to her as her messiah. Put me first and you will never thirst again. Put me first and I can fill that hole inside of you. Put me first, and the rest of your life will fall into place. Put me first, you can count on me Every. Single. Time. God IS the Be-All-End-All. Home is what we long for and this is what HOME really stands for… H- Honor Romans 12:10 O-Others Philippians 2:1-8 M- Mercy Luke 6:36 Ephesians 4:32 E-Edify 1 Thessalonians 5:11 Is your relationship based on performance or value? HOME… HOME is what we long for. When we follow the example of Jesus, there really is no place like home.
Duration:39 mins

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