Sun, Apr 15, 2018

Be a Team

by Linda Evans
Winning at Marriage week one message from Linda Evans on April 15, 2018 at Community Church of Waterford, Goshen, Indiana. God hates divorce but he doesn’t hate divorced people. He loves them. There can be redemption, there can be forgiveness, there can be restoration, because we serve an incredible, powerful God. Malachi 2:16 I told a handful of people that I was giving a 2 week sermon series on marriage and asked for topic ideas. Here are some of the suggestions I got... 1. How to survive in a loveless marriage 2. How to survive a cheating spouse 3. How to not be lonely in your marriage 4. How to love someone who doesn’t love you like you hoped 5. How to keep going when your spouse stops cherishing you and just gives out demands like “keep the house clean and be a better mom”. People were wondering how to survive when what God intended is for us to thrive in our relationships. One of the best pieces of advice that I ever received was to think of you and your spouse as a team. What makes a teammate great? A great teammate develops real relationships with their teammate. A great teammate is willing to play any role on the team. 1 Corinthians 12:17-20 A great teammate is always willing to give maximum effort. Galatians 6:9 A great teammate works hard to improve their game. Matthew 5:41 A great teammate spends time studying the opponent. 1 Peter 5:8 A great teammate always leads by example and encourages. Hebrews 10:24-25 A great teammate understands the importance of good communication. 1 Peter 1:19 A great teammate understands their own strengths and weaknesses. A great teammate has a positive and energetic attitude and may glance back but doesn’t keep their eyes fixed on what’s behind. A good teammate doesn’t dwell on what happened earlier. Luke 9:62 A great teammate holds self and others accountable to the commitment they made to the team. A great teammate is willing to accept feedback and make necessary changes. Proverbs 27:17 A great teammate supports others when they are struggling. Never blames or finds excuses. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 A great teammate is reliable, respectful, honest, trustworthy and loving. Marriage (relationship) isn’t something that you get; it’s something that you do. It’s the way you love your partner every day.
Duration:39 mins

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